Sexless Marriage?

Sex is a huge part of a man's life when he's a bachelor, but it can abruptly vanish when he enters the stable comfort of "settling down." According to a recent study, 40 million people are in sexless marriages -- sexless in the sense that the couples in question have sex less than 10 times a year (yikes!). The individuals that were polled offered a range of reasons as to why they were not having sex: Some cited busy lives that didn't allow time for it, others pointed to medications that affected their libidos, while others came up with the lamer reasoning that the bed wasn't sexy anymore (not necessarily because of an absence of satin sheets, but because couples often watched TV or brought their laptops or PDAs into the bedroom). But one looms: Does a marriage need sex?

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Should Women Propose?

n recent years, it has become increasingly popular to live in common-law arrangements, which has behooved many men. After all, why buy the cow if the milk is free? Well, apparently the milk has been pasteurized, bottled and distributed. According to Dr. Sheri Jacobson, a relationship counselor at Harley Therapy in London, tides are shifting and she “expect[s] that more women than ever will be proposing in 2008.”

We suppose that’s a boon for florists, dress makers, DJs, and caterers, but it castrates men of their last traditional role as the one who wears the pants. Proposing, despite being done according to the woman’s time line and expectations, is our last vestige of dominance over women. There are more women in college than men, their numbers continue to grow in the workforce and now they want to own us -- because that’s what marriage is, ownership.

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Bad Sex In America

According to the Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey, Americans suck at sex. There's really no other way to say it -- we just don't do it enough and, when we do, we don't enjoy it. The results found that, on average, Americans have sex (including foreplay) for 35 minutes once every 4.3 days. That averages out to only 57 minutes a week. Have our lives really become so busy that we can't even schedule in quality time for a little horizontal tango?

We already know that many Americans suffer from sexless marriages, but why are we so adverse to an activity that clearly brings us joy and pleasure? This survey ranked Americans as one of the bottom-feeders in the realm of sexual activity, as Americans only indulge in sexual intercourse, on average, 85 times a year, way below the global average, which is 103 times. So, where are we going wrong?

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3 Reasons Why Women Would Never Call You Back After The First Date

She thought you were boring- Well this is probably one of the major reasons why most women don't not even bother to call back after the first date. You see if they thought you were boring than what's the use of even calling you and deal with the same old boredom again? Therefore the next time you go on a date make sure you make it exciting enough for the woman to call you back and carry on with future conversations.

She thought you were not her type- Now not all men are blessed with stunning looks and a million dollars but it is not that hard to change a woman's opinion regarding a man. You see women judge you based on the way you act and talk while on a date. And if she thinks you are not her type than these factors must have played a big role in it.

She did not feel comfortable around you- This normally takes place when the woman feels that you might be looking for a one time thing and might be willing to talk to her just to get temporary fun. You see unless women get comfortable around you they would never get into any sort of relationship with you.

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5 Manly Personality Traits That Are Seductive to Women

This is great news for us men. It means that whatever you look like, there is a girl who wants you. Whatever your interests or occupation, there's a chick who finds you fascinating.

But what if you want to broaden your appeal by making yourself attractive to as many girls as possible?

Luckily, there are certain character traits which almost every woman finds desirable. Read on to discover what they are.

1. A Sense of Humor

We are forever being told that women want a man with a sense of humor. We are being told this because it is true.

If you can make a woman laugh she will quickly come to associate spending time in your company with feelings of happiness. In the shorter term, putting a smile on a girl's face is the simplest way of putting her at ease.

Bear in mind that girls are rarely amused by mad pranks and crude jokes. Instead, deliver a selection of amusing anecdotes and master the art of the irreverent wisecrack.

2. Ambition

Many men believe that every girl wants a guy with money. This is not necessarily true. Sure, most chicks would love to dine in the finest restaurants and relax in your penthouse apartment - but accumulated wealth means less to them than your future ambitions.

Even a penniless student can impress a girl if he has big dreams. Make it clear that not only do you have great goals but that you are actively pursuing them and your determination will soon win her over.

3. Attentiveness

Every girl loves to feel like she's special, and that's exactly how you should treat her.

On a first date, show some good old-fashioned manners. Hold doors open for her, pick up the check and offer her your jacket if she's cold.

When she talks to you, listen. Don't let your eyes wander across the room and don't interrupt her with exciting tales of your own. Bear in mind that when women share their problems they're looking for sympathy not solutions, so keep your helpful suggestions to yourself for now, squeeze her hand and wear your best supportive smile.

4. Confidence

If you don't think you deserve her attention, why should she bother giving it to you?

Women don't want to spend all evening reassuring you that you're worth spending time with. Learn to ignore those niggling doubts about yourself and fake some self esteem. Stand up straight and resist the urge to hide in the corners. Meet her eyes, smile widely and consciously maintain a slow, steady tone of voice.

If you can act like you're someone special, she will believe that you are.

5. A Sense of Fun

Whether your aim is a one night stand or a series of dates, boredom and negativity are your worst enemies. Don't complain to her and don't lecture her about everything that's wrong with the world. Instead, focus on the positive. Approach your time together with energy and enthusiasm, show spontaneity and tell her about all the fun and exciting ways you like to live your life.

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Signs of a Cheating Wife

Personal Appearance - Typically, a wife having an affair will begin to pay close attention to her personal appearance. For instance, she may begin working out and dieting to lose weight, she might start going to the tanning salon, perhaps she is having her nails and hair done more often or differently, or she may take great interest in clothing.

Daily Behavior - Behavior is another way in which you might confirm a cheating wife. As an example, you may notice your wife getting up and leaving for work earlier, taking an extended lunch, wanting to spend more time with the "girlfriends", and so on. Again, while not confirmation of an affair, this is one of the signs.

Finances - If you notice your wife spending money on frivolous things, dining out more, or making credit card purchases for small gift items, you might ask why.

Phone Call Tip-Offs - A cheating wife may spend more time on the phone, want more privacy while on the phone, or have an increase in wrong numbers when she answers.

Car Clues - If you find the wife is now keeping the car clean, removing infant seats, perhaps you find cigarette ashes or butts in the ashtray, or even the miles do not coordinate with typically daily travel, it could be a sign of foul play.

Sex - A common change with women who are cheating is that are no longer interested in sex with the husband. When intimacy does occur, she may be more experimental or seem completely distracted.

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How to Have an Affair and Not Get Caught

When you decide to cheat on your spouse you may already have a new partner in mind. Many people never consider an affair until they meet someone they are hopelessly attracted to. Once this happens they start to consider the possibility of straying outside their marriage. If you find yourself in this situation you must first consider the other person. Think about their current situation and if they are in a marriage as well, ask them about it. As odd as it sounds, it's much better to have an affair with someone who has no interest in ending their marriage, than it is with someone looking for a reason to get a divorce. If you have no intention of ending your marriage in favor of a life with your new lover, look for someone who feels the same commitment to their marriage.

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